Today, on Gaudete Sunday, the lectionary invites us to rejoice; “Rejoice in G*d always; again, I say, rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4). The word “Gaudete” means “rejoice” in Latin. We light the third candle of the Advent wreath. The pink candle which represents joy serves as a reminder that even in a solemn season of waiting and preparation, joy is at the heart of our journey.
Advent is the time when we prepare our hearts for the coming of Christ, both in the celebration of Jesus’ birth at Christmas and in the anticipation of the future realm. It always seems little ironic that a season where we focus on waiting and solemn preparation is one, that for many of us, is the busiest time of the year. Maybe amidst this busyness, Gaudete Sunday calls us to stop and ask the question, “What brings me joy?”.
This joy isn’t about fleeting happiness, it’s deeper. It’s the joy of knowing that Christ is near, and that love has already broken into our world. It is also a joy that grows when we encounter this love as kindness.
Over the last couple of weeks, as I am starting the long journey towards healing from my fall, fractured arm and ensuing surgery to plate and pin the bones back together (I counted ten screws on the X-ray!), one of the joys has been the amount of kindness I have received. Kindness from the emergency room staff, the surgical unit (which they opened on a Saturday just for me!), from family, friends and neighbours. The kindness has been overwhelming but much appreciated — I am deeply grateful to all who have sent good wishes, prayers, meals, flowers and other helpful gifts. If you are reading this, words are inadequate but thank you.
The gospel lectionary reading today gives some hints about acts of kindness, which I’m sure brought joy to others. The text (Luke 3:7-18) is a story of John the Baptizer talking to the crowds, warning them that their lives need to change. John gives three examples all of which show kindness.
The first example is, “Whoever has two coats must share with anyone who has none; and whoever has food must do likewise” (11).
The second illustration is about tax collectors. They are told “Collect no more than the amount prescribed for you” (13).
The third reminder is “Do not extort money from anyone by threats or false accusation, and be satisfied with your wages” (14)
As I read these commands from John, I saw acts of kindness illustrated which would bring joy to others and to self — generosity, sharing, honesty and satisfaction with one’s life. It also reminds me as I seek to be as Christ to those I meet, that a second question is “How can I bring joy to others?”.
Gaudete Sunday reminds us that joy often begins in small, quiet ways, I don’t think Joy is meant to be hoarded; it’s meant to be shared. Little acts of kindness are the seeds of joy—both for the giver and the receiver. When we offer kindness, we reflect God’s care and create spaces where joy can grow. When we choose kindness, we become vessels of God’s joy for the world.
I wish everyone a happy and joy filled Gaudete Sunday.